We are all wanting to belong to a particular idea . We identify with a sports team by being fans and worshiping the team mascot. Or we choose to identify with a political party and idolize the candidate that represents the party. Or we may want to identify with a specific religion or philosophy , and live our lives based on a set of values. We can even identify with fashion, culture,or ethnicity. All of this, simply to feel as if we belong ..
And why do we want to belong? So that we can feel secured and protected. So that we don’t feel alone and vulnerable. We fear being alone. We dont want to be different , to prevent being singled out, ridiculed, and marginalized. We want to blend with the crowd.